Coercive Control and Family Court Lived Experience: Part 8 of 8 — This time I Knew the Script

The paperwork arrived with a familiar script. I stayed at work, managed the adrenaline, and logged into the remote hearing steady. No performance—just dates, notes, and boundaries. This is how I handled a professional standards playbook using documentation, ordinary decency, and integrity.
Why I Write

A survivor’s testimony documenting coercive control and police failures, the timeline she built to protect her children, and a call to prioritise child safety.
The Accountability That Never Comes from West Mercia Police

May 28, 2024. Content note: This post discusses police corruption, domestic abuse, coercive control, and the psychological impact of institutional betrayal. Some sections describe acute mental health crisis. A year ago today, my workplace was taken from me as a safety net. The anti-corruption and professional standards team called to pop in. I had no…
























