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  • At 34, Everything Changed

    At 34, Everything Changed

    At 34, Everything Changed December 15, 2025 The Mother They Created When They Failed My Children At 34, I lost everything. Not my job—work remained my only safe haven, the one place that still made sense when nothing else did. What I lost was far more fundamental. I lost my belief that people do the

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  • Day 1 — A Personal Account of Police Corruption, Institutional Betrayal, and What Happens When One Officer Dares to Do the Right Thing

    Day 1 — A Personal Account of Police Corruption, Institutional Betrayal, and What Happens When One Officer Dares to Do the Right Thing

    Two years after fleeing domestic abuse with three children and one plastic bag, this first-hand account documents what happened when repeated disclosures of child abuse, coercive control, and serious safeguarding risks were met with silence, dismissal, and institutional failure — until one officer chose to do his job properly. Part One of a two-part testimony…

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  • The Impact of Ignoring Domestic Abuse Reports

    The Impact of Ignoring Domestic Abuse Reports

    The Day Everything Changed The root of the problem was not a lack of disclosure.It was what happened after I asked for help. The actions and decisions taken by the first officer I disclosed abuse to had a profound and lasting impact on my life after leaving an abusive relationship. That initial response shaped everything

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